I WANTED TO REFLECT ON MY YOUTH GROUP EXPERIENCE BACK AT SOUTH ATTLEBORO ASSEMBLY OF GOD DURING THE YEARS OF 1984-1990. DURING THIS TIME I HAVE VERY FOND MEMORIES OF BEING INVOLVED IN THE YOUTH GROUP PROGRAM THERE THAT WAS HEADED UP BY REV. RON RAY………OUR YOUTH PASTOR AT THE TIME. MANY OF YOU READING THIS WILL HAVE GREAT MEMORIES OF OUR TIME AT “THE WAY STATION”…….OTHERS OF YOU WILL HAVE NO IDEA BUT JUST ENJOY AS I TAKE A WALK BACK DOWN MEMORY LANE AND SHARE SOME GREAT MEMORIES DURING THIS TIME……..
SOMETIME IN 1984 MY FAMILY HAD CHANGED CHURCHES DURING THIS TIME AND I WAS ASKED TO GET INVOLVED IN THE YOUTH GROUP AT SOUTH ATTLEBORO ASSEMBLY OF GOD. REV. RON RAY HAD JUST BECOME THE YOUTH PASTOR SOMETIME BEFORE MY FAMILY ATTENDED THE CHURCH. ANYWAY, I GOT TO KNOW SOME OTHERS IN THE YOUTH GROUP AND LATER GOT INVOLVED…….PASTOR RON CALLED THE YOUTH MINISTRY THERE, “THE WAY STATION”. WE WOULD MEET ON WEDNESDAY NIGHTS HAVING A PRAISE BAND WITH SOME VIDEOS, GAMES AND OF COURSE PASTOR RON WOULD PREACH EACH WEEK. WHAT WAS NEAT ABOUT THIS IS THAT THE YOUTH GROUP GREW EACH WEEK. I GOT TO KNOW MANY OTHERS DURING THIS TIME AND ESTABLISHED SOME GREAT FRIENDSHIPS THAT LAST EVEN TODAY ABOUT 25 YRS LATER………LET ME SHARE WITH YOU SOME MEMORIES:
1. SATURDAY NIGHT BIBLE STUDIES: WE WOULD MEET AT DIFFERENT HOMES AND HAVE SOMEONE LEAD A BIBLE STUDY EACH WEEK. I REMEMBER MANY BIBLE STUDIES DURING THIS TIME BUT REMEMBER KATHY’S BIBLE STUDY ON OUTWARD APPEARANCES…….SHE USED A BARBIE DOLL AND SHARED OUR OUTWARD APPEARANCE IS NOT AS IMPORTANT AS OUR INWARD APPEARANCE TO GOD…….WOW……..KATHY, REMEMBER THAT??? I REMEMBER TODD, STU, CHERYL, AND MANY OTHERS THAT LED BIBLE STUDIES…….I ALSO TAUGHT A TIME OR TOO AS WELL………I THINK I PUT MANY TO SLEEP WITH MANY OF THEM……..LOL…………..
2. SUNDAY NIGHTS AFTER CHURCH: WELL AS A GROUP OR I COULD SAY A “CLICK” MANY OF US WOULD GO TO A RESTAURANT AFTER SUNDAY EVENING SERVICE AND ENJOY EATING AND CHATTING……..CHELIOS, JENNINGS, THE BEEF HEARTH…….LOL…….REMEMBER??? DID WE GET KICKED OUT TOO???? LOL……….JOHN AGUIAR I THINK YOU WERE RESPONSIBLE…….LOL………..WELL LETS JUST SAY THOSE NIGHTS I LOOKED FORWARD TOO BECAUSE I GOT TO KNOW MANY OF YOU READING THIS……….GREAT RELATIONSHIPS STARTED FROM THESE EVENINGS……….
3. WEDNESDAY NIGHTS- EACH WEDNESDAY NIGHT WE HAD OUR YOUTH GROUP MEETING…….I ENJOYED GOING EACH WEEK AND REALLY ENJOYED IT WHEN I GOT MORE INVOLVED IN THE LEADERSHIP OF THE YOUTH GROUP……..MANY NEW FACES EACH WEEK……….SOME OF US WOULD GO OUT AFTER TO ONE OF OUR FAVORITE RESTAURANTS……..CHELIOS, JENNINGS, THE BEEF HEARTH…….LOL………REMEMBER???
4. MY HOUSE CRASHED BY MEMBERS OF “THE WAY STATION”- THIS HAPPENED MANY YEARS AGO…….MY PARENTS WERE GONE ON VACATION AND SOME OF YOU HAD THE IDEA TO BREAK INTO MY PARENTS HOME AND THROW CONFETTI ALL OVER THE HALLWAY, KITCHEN AND LIVING ROOM……LETS JUST SAY THERE WAS A CAKE……..A GRANDMOTHER ON THE CAKE………LOL………THE BATHROOM WELL LETS JUST SAY THINGS WERE HANGING ON THE DOOR…….LOL………HMMNNNN……….THE GUILTY PEOPLE………JOHN AGUIAR, PHIL, CANDY (YEAH YOU CANDY-REMEMBER???) COLLEEN (REMEMBER???) LIZ, AND OTHERS SHALL REMAIN NAMELESS…….LOL……DO YOU REMEMBER I HAD TO GET THE VACUUM AND CLEAN THE HOUSE???? HMNN……REMEMBER PASTOR RON WAS NOTIFIED BY MY PARENTS AND SOME OF YOU PASTOR RON TALKED WITH??? REMEMBER???? LOL…………I MUST SAY YEARS LATER I LOOK BACK AND LAUGH BUT PHIL DID NOT LAUGH LATER THAT NIGHT BECAUSE HE HIT A HORSE ON THE WAY HOME…….ALMOST WAS KILLED……….GOOD THING NOTHING SERIOUS HAPPENED………
5. REMEMBER THE BACHELOR ASSOCIATION????? I THINK STU WAS PRESIDENT FOR AWHILE……..LOL……….US BACHELORS HUNG AROUND TOGETHER PLAYING POKER AT STUS HOUSE OR WIFFLE BALL……….LOL……….STU, YOU READY FOR ANOTHER WIFFLE BALL GAME????? SEE YOU ONLINE WITH PLAYSTATION THEN………LOL…………MY BODY HURTS NOW……..LOL…….LADIES, DO YOU REMEMBER OUR BACHELOR ASSOCIATION??? LOL
6. BOB, REMEMBER OUR MANY TIMES AT YOUR HOME IN SOUTH ATTLEBORO???? LOL………WE HAD SOME GREAT TIMES……..SOME GREAT BIBLE STUDIES AND LOTS OF CHATS……..LOL………RANDY, RUSSELL, MARK AND MANY OTHERS……..LOL
7. WAY STATION LOCK IN: REMEMBER WHEN WE WERE LOCKED IN AT THE CHURCH ONE TIME??? WE HAD MUSIC, BIBLE STUDIES AND OF COURSE OUR ROCK SOLID PERFORMANCE WITH AIR GUITARS AND DRUMS……BRUCE STANFORD, YOU REMEMBER???? JOHN AGUIAR??? RAY JACK??? AND YES YOURS TRULY………HOW RIDICULOUS WE LOOKED BUT IT WAS FUN DOING A DEGARMO AND KEY SONG…….LOL
8. PASTOR RON, HOW MANY TIMES DID YOUR CARS AND HOME AT ROYAL PARK APARTMENTS GET TOILET PAPERED??? LOL…….GLAD YOU HAD SENSE OF HUMOR THAT IS FOR SURE……I THINK EVERYONE DID IT AT ONE TIME OR TWO……LOL……….SOME OF YOU WERE REPEAT OFFENDERS………LOL
9. STEVE AND DORREEN LEBEAU- OUR PRAYER MEETINGS AT YOUR HOME BACK THEN WERE VERY MEMORABLE…….LOTS OF GREAT MEMORIES FOR SURE…….
10. BOB AND LORI GORMLEY- I AM SURE MOST OF YOU REMEMBER OUR BIBLE STUDIES AND PRAYER MEETINGS THERE……..WE HAD A LOT OF GOOD TIMES THERE…….WHERE IS BOB AND LORI????
11. YOUTH LEADERS RETREAT IN STURBRIDGE……..WELL SOME OF YOU SHOULD REMEMBER……I KNOW RANDY HOWARD AND I REMEMBER……..I WAS TRYING TO BE SUPERMAN AND DIVE INTO THE BED WITH THE LIGHTS OFF BUT FOUND THE DESK………LOL………….ACTUALLY MY JAW FOUND THE DESK………LOL………WAS HURT AND CUT ON MY FACE……..LOL……….I REMEMBER PAM CHECKING ON ME…….HOW EMBARRASSING……….LOL
12. NIGHT AT CHELIOS- I THINK MANY OF US REMEMBER A WAITRESS THAT HAD A BAD DAY AND WAS CRYING IN FRONT OF US WHILE SERVING US OUR FOOD. WE FELT BAD FOR HER AND GAVE HER ABOUT A $50 TIP………..I WONDER IS SHE IS STILL CRYING………LOL
13. PASTOR RON, REMEMBER PLAYING BASKETBALL AND FOOTBALL WITH US??? THAT WAS THE GOOD OLD DAYS…….STU, I REMEMBER YOUR ELBOWS………LOL……..
14. HEY, ELIZABETH RAY STRYSKO, REMEMBER BEING PAM AND I’S FLOWER GIRL AT OUR WEDDING??? ABOUT 20YRS AGO……..LOL……NOW YOU ARE MARRIED???? WOW………I AM REALLY FEELING OLD……….LOL
15. DID ANYBODY DRIVE WITH JOHN AGUIAR???? I DID AND I AM THANKFUL I AM STILL ALIVE TODAY……..SORRY JOHN……….LOL………..ITS ALL GOOD……….LOL…………HEY, JENNY I HOPE YOU ARE DRIVING AND NOT JOHN……….LOL
16. MISSION TRIP IN 1988 TO CANADA: SEVERAL OF US WERE FORTUNATE TO GO AND EXPERIENCE THE COLD BY CAMPING WITH THE CREE INDIANS……GREAT SKITS WE DID…….MUSIC, FELLOWSHIP AND PREACHING……….ONE SONG I REMEMBER IS HES ALIVE……..THEY SANG THAT ALL THE TIME…….STEVE CAMP AND HIS WIFE WERE THERE IN A CONCERT……..WHAT A GREAT EXPERIENCE………..
17. I REMEMBER ATTENDING SOME BIBLE STUDIES WITH SUE AND MANY OTHERS……..IT WAS GREAT TO BUILD SOME GREAT FRIENDSHIPS DURING THIS TIME………..
18. CANDY, REMEMBER MY BACK BRACE???? I WORE IT ABOUT A YEAR AND YOU ENCOURAGED ME BACK THEN……..I DO NOT KNOW IF YOU REMEMBER BUT THANKS!!! I REMEMBER……..FELT LIKE A WALKING LIGHTNING ROD WITH A BACK BRACE AND BRACES………LOL
19. SWIMMING AT THE ROBINSONS……….SEVERAL TIMES THE YOUTH GROUP WOULD HAVE SWIM PARTIES AT THE ROBINSONS…….
20. MANY CHATS AT PASTOR RON’S AND ELAINE’S AFTER SERVICES…….I BET YOU BOTH DID NOT GET MUCH SLEEP BACK THEN………LOL……………
THESE ARE JUST A FEW GREAT MEMORIES I HAD DURING MY YEARS AT THIS YOUTH GROUP……..NOW I WANT TO THANK MANY OF YOU PERSONALLY FOR YOUR IMPACT ON MY LIFE AND WHAT YOU HAVE MEANT TO ME OVER THE YEARS……..IF YOUR NAME IS NOT MENTIONED DO NOT TAKE IT PERSONALLY…….HARD TO PUT EVERYONE DOWN ON THE LIST…..I WOULD NEED TO WRITE A BOOK……LOL……SOME OF YOU MIGHT SHARE MY THOUGHTS ON THE PEOPLE I LIST……..
1. PASTOR RON AND ELAINE RAY- YOU BOTH MEANT MORE TO ME BACK THEN THAN YOU CAN IMAGINE……YOU WERE BOTH ROLE MODELS FOR ME AND PEOPLE OF CHARACTER AND INTEGRITY……THANK YOU FOR TAKING THE TIME TO ASSIST ME IN MY GROWING AND MATURING………THANKS!!
2. STEVE AND DOREEN LEBEAU- BOTH OF YOU TOOK INTEREST IN OUR YOUTH GROUP AND LEND YOUR HOME TO US…….THANKS FOR YOUR HOSPITALITY AND CARING……YOU BOTH WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN…….GOD BLESS YOU BOTH.
3. BOB AND LORI GORMLEY- YOU BOTH SHARED YOUR HOME WITH OUR YOUTH GROUP AND CARED ABOUT US. BOTH OF YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN AND I WANT TO SAY THANKS FOR ALL YOU DID FOR US……
NOW MY PERSONAL SHOUT OUTS TO SOME OF YOU:
4. STU ROSS- GREAT FRIENDSHIP DURING THESE YEARS….SPEAKING AT PAM AND I’S WEDDING…….THANKS BUDDY……..GOD BLESS YOU IN BULGARIA…..HOPE TO GET TOGETHER AGAIN SOMEDAY……..WIFFLEBALL???? LOL
5- TODD BELCHER AND SHAWN BELCHER- GREAT FRIENDSHIPS DURING THIS TIME AND FOR BOTH OF YOU BEING IN PAM AND I’S WEDDING…….THANKS……
6- CANDY FEDERICO- YOU ENCOURAGED ME DURING THIS TIME AND SANG AT PAM AND I’S WEDDING……THANKS…
7- SUE JORDAN MCDONALD- OUR CHATS DURING THOSE DAYS AND THE BIBLE STUDIES ENCOURAGED ME TO KNOW I HAD A FRIEND WHO CARED….THANKS……..
8- BOB LOMBARDO- GREAT FRIEND DURING THIS TIME AND YOU OPENED YOUR HOME TO US………THANKS……
9- KATHY MOSHER CALLAHAN- WOW OUR FRIENDSHIP STARTED BACK AT BRISTOL FARMS AND BLISS…..GREAT FRIEND THROUGH THE YEARS…..YOUR PRAYERS I KNOW HAVE HELPED ME……OUR TALKS BACK THEN WERE ENCOURAGING TO ME……THANKS…….
10- CHERYL MCCABE HUGHES- WE HAD MANY TALKS ABOUT THINGS BACK THEN……NOT ALWAYS SEEING EYE TO EYE BUT YOU WERE AN ENCOURAGEMENT TO ME…….MISS OUR FRIENDSHIP….GLAD TO HAVE FOUND YOU AGAIN……
11- TODD NEVUE- WOW JUST SEEMED LIKE WE WERE OVER YOUR HOME PLAYING RISK OR HAVING A BIBLE STUDY…LOL……GLAD TO BE TALKING TO YOU AGAIN…..
12. RYAN AND MARYANN SMITH- YOUR FRIENDSHIP OVER THE YEARS HAS BEEN AN ENCOURAGEMENT TO ME…..I KNOW YOUR PRAYERS HAVE HELPED ME TOO……THANKS…
13. JOHN AGUIAR- WE WERE BUDS DURING THIS TIME……YOU WERE AN ENCOURAGEMENT TO ME AND I APPRECIATED YOUR FRIENDSHIP…….THANKS…
14. RUSSELL AND MARK HOYT- GREAT FRIENDSHIP DURING THIS TIME……LOTS OF GREAT MEMORIES……..THANKS…
15. COLLEEN BELANGER LOMBARDO- GREAT FRIENDSHIP DURING THIS TIME…….MANY TALKS WE HAD AND YOU WERE AN ENCOURAGEMENT TO ME……..THANKS
THESE ARE ONLY A FEW NAMES OF MANY I COULD NAME BUT YOU HAVE IMPACTED MY LIFE………I TREASURED OUR FRIENDSHIP BACK THEN AND TREASURE IT TODAY…….SOME OF YOU SHOULD SHARE YOUR MEMORIES AS WELL……LEAVE YOUR COMMENTS…………I WANT TO HEAR FROM SOME OF YOU……….